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December 10, 2024
When it comes to signing legal documents, mental capacity isn't as simple as 'capable' or 'incapable.' Whether you're helping an aging parent update their will or concerned about a loved one's ability to manage contracts, knowing the legal standards for capacity can help you make informed decisions and avoid future complications. Learn what courts look for and the key warning signs you shouldn't ignore...
Family having a discussion at the dinner table with a Christmas tree in the background.
December 3, 2024
The holiday season brings families together, offering more than just festive celebrations. For adult children with aging parents, these gatherings provide a valuable opportunity to observe how well their loved ones are managing and to have important conversations about future care needs. Here's what to look out for and how to approach these discussions...
Older couple meeting with elder law attorney about estate planning for an early dementia diagnosis.
November 19, 2024
When a loved one receives an Alzheimer's or dementia diagnosis, families in Rochester and throughout New York face many challenges. While managing medical care is often the first priority, creating a comprehensive estate plan is equally crucial. Early planning helps protect both your loved one's wishes and their financial security. Learn why early planning matters...
A gavel is sitting on top of a last will and testament
November 12, 2024
When a loved one passes away, dealing with estate matters can be challenging enough without the added stress of an executor who isn't performing their duties properly. Whether you're concerned about your mother's estate or planning ahead for your own estate, understanding the process of replacing an executor in New York State is crucial.
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October 8, 2024
At Rochester Elder Law, we believe in a holistic approach to planning for your future. This approach, known as life care planning, combines the crucial elements of estate planning and elder law to ensure you're prepared for every stage of life. Let's explore how these areas intersect and why they're essential for New York residents...
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A Guide to Navigating The Challenges of Caregiving
A Guide to Navigating The Challenges of Caregiving
July 4, 2023

You won’t know the difficulties of being a caregiver until you become one. Many people take on the challenge because it involves someone they love. In the US, 53 million people have assumed this role and then struggled to make it work. Much of the challenge surrounds organizing and storing critical documents, so you’re prepared when you need them.


Personal Experience and Valuable Caretaker Resources


When Michael’s good friend experienced a bad fall, he stepped in to help without knowing what to expect. He realized his biggest hurdle was locating and gathering essential documents, vital information, and passwords in various places without the help of the person who created them.


“I was in tears at one point. I just needed to put everything down in one place.”
— Michael Picon


It took five years before he decided to write his books: The Caregiver’s Notebook and The Power of Attorney’s Notebook, to help other caretakers store critical information, such as medical history, conditions and treatment, and legal documents like advance directives, with a weekly care journal and planner.


Michael designed and launched online applications for Vogue and Vanity Fair and understands that digital solutions work well in many situations. But as a caregiver of a loved one, he ditched technology and published two print books to help caregivers instead.


Michael chose to print books so caretakers wouldn’t be dependent on technology and accessing the internet or using a smartphone while speaking to nursing home directors or government assistant representatives. These professionals need actual documents or accurate details about the individual in need to provide critical information about services and benefits. Technology requires login and password information that could be a barrier in these situations.


Strategies to Reduce Caregiver Stress


Michael’s books discuss the fact that, in 2020, 61% of caregivers were women. Women continue to carry the burden in both formal and informal roles. Caretaking requires compassion, patience, and empathy. It also takes organization and perseverance. Unfortunately, many caretakers are unpaid and forego career advancement and personal time to protect their loved ones. This creates stress on top of the mountains of paperwork.


Caregiving requires a strategy to solve a myriad of medical and administrative problems. These tangible books help you start the caretaking journey by highlighting what’s most important, making everyone’s life a little easier.


Our elder law attorneys also help you gather information to ensure your loved one gets the quality care and treatment they need and the financial resources necessary to pay for it. Caretaking is a labor of love. We provide guidance and support to minimize the stress and uncertainty in your role. Contact Rochester Elder Law today to see how we can help.

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When it comes to signing legal documents, mental capacity isn't as simple as 'capable' or 'incapable.' Whether you're helping an aging parent update their will or concerned about a loved one's ability to manage contracts, knowing the legal standards for capacity can help you make informed decisions and avoid future complications. Learn what courts look for and the key warning signs you shouldn't ignore...
Family having a discussion at the dinner table with a Christmas tree in the background.
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November 19, 2024
When a loved one receives an Alzheimer's or dementia diagnosis, families in Rochester and throughout New York face many challenges. While managing medical care is often the first priority, creating a comprehensive estate plan is equally crucial. Early planning helps protect both your loved one's wishes and their financial security. Learn why early planning matters...
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